Christmas Night in Alone Essentials

Now, who else LOVES a cosy night in by themselves?! 🙋‍♀️ Ed’s away in Panto Land, and whilst he’s home most nights, it tends to be late, so I’ve had a few opportunities to engross myself in some much needed me time (it’s been a long term)! So, what are my night in alone essentials? Let me run them by you.

First off: PREP!

  1. TIDY.

    Get the washing up done, and make sure the house is nice and tidy. You’ll find it much easier to relax (and feel like you deserve it more too!) if your home is nice and clean and clutter free!

  2. Light a candle and get in the bath.

    I recently invested in an Apple and Cinnamon scented bubble bath, and this alongside some tealight candles makes for such a relaxing, festive bath!

  3. Moisturise.

    When you’re all scrubbed and nice and clean (don’t forget to exfoliate if you can), grab your favourite moisturiser and go to town on soothing that winter skin. You’ll feel clean as a whistle!

  4. Hair Mask.

    If you washed your hair, use a leave in conditioner. No one’s going to see you, so work it through your hair and stick it up in a nice top knot. I don’t spend enough time giving my hair TLC, so these nights are a fantastic time to do just that!

  5. Get Comfy.

    Get into your fluffiest Christmas PJs (or onesie!), get the fairylights and Christmas tree on if they’re not already, and either order a takeaway, or cook your favourite meal! My fave night in food is burger and chips 😊 But not Maccie’s, I mean a good stacked up burger, with bacon and cheese and fried onion and loads of other yummy additions 😍

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Now you’re clean, fed and watered, you need to set yourself up for the rest of the evening. Grab whatever you need from the bathroom/kitchen, because you want to move as little as possible for the next few hours! Pick a lovely festive film (my top pick would either be The Holiday or Love Actually for an evening like this!), and nestle down. Here’s the things that I think about prepping:

  • Pudding – THE BIGGEST priority, obviously…MINCE PIE ANYONE?! 🥧😉
  • Yummy drink – But what am I in the mood for? Red wine? Baileys? Hot chocolate? 🍷
  • Nail varnish – Do I want to take this opportunity of sitting and doing nothing, to paint my nails? 💅🏻
  • Candles – GET THEM LIT, it feels so much cosier! 🕯️
  • Face mask – Are you a smoothie mask kind of person or a peeler? I’m a peeler. 🧖🏻
  • Airplane Mode – Turn it on. You’ll be able to enjoy your evening so much more if you’re uninterrupted and not tempted to start scrolling through Insta. ✈️

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I can’t explain how much I love a cosy night in. And now that we’re in our gorgeous house for the first year too, these nights are so much yummier than ever before 😍 What are your night in alone essentials, can you recommend anything you think I’m missing out on? Share below in the comments!

Lynette x (3)

 

Hitting the Reset Button

It’s amazing how calming a walk in nature can be. Ed and I have had very little time to ourselves recently, and even less time together (apart from the general living together things). Any free time I’ve had has been spent thinking about or planning for whatever’s coming up next…classes, workshops, Showcase in October, and trying to be more proactive with blogging…

…which is fine, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it a million more times, I love my job and I’m incredibly lucky with everything that’s going on right now…but that doesn’t mean that sometimes it can get on top of me and I feel I need to take a step back. As we all do. I think that switching off is so important (and healthy!), and we should all try and make a conscious effort, if we can, to allow ourselves time to breathe (even if that just means a short walk, cinema trip or bubble bath).

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The other day, Ed and I took ourselves on a walk. The main reason being, we have our engagement shoot coming up and we needed to scout out some locations – which is exciting! But it turned into a two birds one stone situation – it was such a calm and peaceful afternoon, and I hadn’t realised until we were down by the river, how much I needed it. And actually, how much we both needed it, the man is amazing, but has been so busy and hasn’t had a day to himself for too long for so many reasons – and obviously, I want to make sure that he has some proper time off and doesn’t burn out, so I think we (accidentally) planned it just at the right time.

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For anyone needing to switch off, I can’t recommend a walk enough. It was a warm, sunny day, we (miraculously, I’m not sure how though on a Sunday afternoon on Knaresborough’s waterside) avoided the crowds! Crowds would’ve probably made us even more stressed 😂

Obviously we took some pictures, but ignoring our phones, switching off and just being in our own little world for a couple of hours, was so refreshing.

I think that Ed summed it up beautifully as we were walking home – it was the perfect reset button. A chance to take time just with each other, to chat, laugh take stock of what we’ve got and just chill out.

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I’ve always loved walks, even as a kid (the Rents got me and my brother walking boots for the amount of walks we went on, THAT’S how into it we were!), and I really don’t do them enough these days – especially knowing how therapeutic they can be. 

We had a gorgeous afternoon, and if you live in Knaresborough, don’t forget about the amazing things we have on our doorstep… We’re all guilty of doing it (us included!), but we get so caught up with life and adulting that we forget that the river’s a 5 minute walk away, or we could go and stroll around the Castle with a Brymor’s Icecream.

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Can I make an August resolution? 😂 MORE WALKS PLEASE! Because I just can’t get over how much good it did me.

Anyone else got any ‘ultimate chill and reset’ ideas?! Feel free to share!

Lynette x (3)